CORD: Conflict-Aware Optimization for Joint RL and Distillation in Agents

Joint reinforcement learning and self-distillation combines task rewards with dense teacher guidance for agent training, but their gradients can partly cancel. A mixing coefficient controls relative scale without selectively removing opposing components. We present CORD, a general framework for conflict-aware optimization of two objectives. CORD separates the choice of protected objective from the condition that triggers projection, and combines the gradients once per optimizer mini-batch. A nearest-point formulation yields a closed-form update and characterizes its first-order effect on the protected objective before optimizer transformations. Gradient diagnostics connect conflict in agent training to lost local optimization progress and motivate selective correction. As a gradient-combination mechanism, CORD can be added to different joint training recipes while retaining their objectives. Across three such recipes, it improves ALFWorld success by 1.5-15.9 percentage points. On WebShop, it improves two of the three pairs, with SDAR rising from 60.7% to 64.6% success. Our analyses explain why protection direction and projection gate must be chosen together, and why the distillation objective and its mixing weight remain consequential after projection.